We have similar issues and also disapearing parts of proxys, also if you hit render it says 22 hours and if you stop and hit again render it says 255 hour and for the proxy only it took 30 min for 6 passes at 2800 pixels wide, here an example. Did the test with and no forest, same results, testet on machines with 64 gigs of ram and 32, i7 and dual xeon and sinlge xeon, same results.