That graph does say you have most likely run out of RAM, which will make rendering go very slowly. Once you get to something like only 10% free, you can run into problems. This wouldn't explain the slow benchmark, though, which is also about twice as slow as it should be.
You'd need to check where those memory sticks are placed, as motherboards usually require certain sticks in certain places, and which slots to use might depend on whether you have 2, 4, 6, etc. sticks installed.
Looking at your benchmark, your CPU only ran at 3.14 GHz (if I am looking at the right one based on your info above of time it took), while those in the top (expected) range there ran at around 5.2GHz, so something is preventing your processor from reaching it's full speed there. Could be RAM configuration, could be overheating so that it stays throttled rather than "turbo'ed", could be something else though.