IR will only be fast if A. your PC is adequately fast, B. the scene is relatively simple and C. there are no fundamental issues with the scene (e.g. the scene fits to RAM, there's unreasonably complex materials, etc.). Fast denoiser will only helps to achieve clean result faster, but it does not help much in very early stages, when render is still very noisy. You need to provide more information in your post - tell us your setup, show some screenshots with VFB and stats panel during rendering.