Hi, thanks for your requests. Generally Corona is intended for photorealistic rendering, and adding "fakes" usually means that sooner or later something will break, so it's always a challenge. But each feature request is checked, so it is possible that our developers will consider yours too.
As to "an option where you could select an object and say if it will affect alpha channel or not" - not sure if you are aware of this already, but you can control whether specific material is visible to the alpha channel and/or masks by using the "alpha mode" and "visible in masks" settings in the material's Advanced options rollout.