Hi! Sorry to hear about the problems, however we would need a lot more information in a case like this. First, ideally we'd need the scene -
https://coronarenderer.freshdesk.com/support/solutions/articles/5000524006-how-to-report-issues-3ds-max is the link that gives the kind of info we need, and has the link to the private uploader on it.
In this case, as well as the scene, we'd need to know which version of Max, which version of Corona, what your hardware specs are, what OS you are running on is. Also useful would be an image of the render results you are getting (after, say, 10 minutes or something), plus a screenshot of the stats tab from the VFB. We'd need to know if any third party plugins are used (you mention Forest Pack - what happens if you remove Forest Pack from the scene, does it render normally then?). We'd need to know if this only happens in this scene and other scenes are fine. Do other render engines, e.g. native Max ones, work fine or do they seem slow too?
You mention bitmap paging - this should never have been enabled in the first place (Corona has a warning message, and a link to more info). You mention you did disable it, but did you also restart Max after that (as the change does not take effect until you do).
Proxies also have no effect on render time, they are for viewport performance only.
We'll be happy to help, but there's nothing much else we can do or say without seeing the scene best of all, or at least without all that extra information.