I personally would much prefer not having to wait longer for the IR to give me a cleaner image and I'd be willing to wait a few extra minutes / seconds when opening files.
Doesn't it kill you to wait for all those single threaded 3ds Max's tasks?
If I'm doing cloth sims on a daily basis then yeah, I hear ya. From my experience the rendering process is fairly easily the most time consuming thing especially when using IR in interior scenes. Its like saying, would you rather wait 10 seconds each time you change a material parameter or wait 10 seconds each time I do a cloth sim.
Or...
Its like when some people shell out 500€ so that 3ds Max starts in 10 seconds instead of 15. I'd much rather have another 128gb of RAM, heh :)) Not that there is anything wrong with the above, just I think personally thats where my I want to focus in terms of upgrades.
Conversely, my SO was doing cloth sims in MD everyday (she changed careers, thats why the past tense) and she totally benefited working on a 4790k with a 4.4ghz turbo. That being said, given the IPC advancement a 4ghz Threadripper is probably very close to that single threaded performance if all the cores are parked.
Ultimately its a balancing act I guess. Believe me though, I am not too patient when it comes to panels taking 5 seconds to open.
Oh and yeah, 3ds Max is sometimes really slow but most DCC apps are single threaded still because multi threading is not always worth it / is not faster.