Thanks arqrenderz for your input!
Thanks for you try pokoy!
I agree, It's really strange that on different computers Max behaves differently and nobody can explain why it is so :P. From my experience, for example, Max gives much better viewport performance if it launched as administrator. It was so with Max 2016, Max 2019, now it is so with Max 2021, but for Max 2014 it doesn't make any difference :). This was confirmed by few Max users on different forums, but, if I get it right, for most of Max users "run as admin" doesn't affect program performance.
Sometimes it feels just like good/bad luck and in this particular case I'm not lucky :)