Sorry, the video is a bit unclear as to what you mean (btw screen capturing the screen is generally better than using a phone to record it, lots of free options out there for screen capture). Anyway I wasn't sure if the completely grey patch in the bottom left was a render that was totally blurred or just a blank viewport.
As well as focus distance, don't forget that depth of field is affected by the f-stop (lower = stronger DOF) and the sensor size (larger = stronger DOF). The distance determines what part will be in focus, but the other two control how blurred the rest of things will be.