What case, board, cooler and ram sticks are these ?
I honestly don't know what the difference in temperature to be, but push is superior in any case. Even with single CPU heatsink fan, you would have push/pull setup using the rear fan as exhaust.
I am asking the first, because if the ram sticks obstruct your fan, it might be because you use some high-profile memory modules ? In such case, you can strip the heatsinks from them, it will make zero difference.