Hi,
You are doing everything correctly. If shadow amount does not do the trick for you, try changing the material for shadow catcher, making it brighter, or tweak it using raySwitch.
Ultimately you need to control the opacity for the shadow, so you need to tweak the Alpha value (given that shadows are not full white or black) - this can be easily done right in the alpha channel of the image. You can either save it, tweak and then apply to the image, or you can tweak it directly as a channel inside Photoshop, if that is were the final compositing is going to happen.
Hope this helps.