The Asus WS boards are actually pretty uncommon, outlier parts.
Most Xeon builds are done using Supermicro boards, which are highly configurable ( there are almost 20 models per each family ).
I would advice against it though, as the Asus one is far better suited for workstation compared to them (the Supermicro can feel pretty barebone, they're not strictly meant to be used in BigTower although they have some models oriented for that as well).
With Asus WS you also get all the possible features you could ever wish for, while in Supermicro you'll have to choose what is it that you need. You could get that choice wrong, and you won't know until future.
Asus has far more user-friendly bios (uefi) compared to them as well, one has "pro"-consumer in mind, the other tech admin. The support is easier, and more common to be found across community on internet.
While it's mostly hypothetical, the compatibility with consumer-grade parts (like GTX GPU range,etc..) is granted compared to server-range like Supermicro, also bios updates when new such parts become available on market will be swifter.
Regarding Gigabyte, good brand, but they're ranked slightly bellow Asus and are less common-choice for true high-end builds. Asus does reign supreme across whole spectrum of parts. Doesn't matter much though in the end, both will do job perfectly.
There is no track-record that Asus boards would be fault-prone, quite opposite, hence their popularity with enthousiasts,pro-consumers,over-clockers,etc.. which comes at slight price margin above their competition.
I understand shitty feeling when these parts go awry, but I would simply return them, and order another same one. Possibly you'll get newer iteration.