I could be wrong but I don't believe this is unusual behavior. The DR status is reporting all the RAM being consumed by the system, not just the corona Dr server. The 7.9 GB you're seeing is just what the system is using at idle. If you open task manager on your node while rendering you should see similar consumption when rendering.
Currently my DrServer is reporting 11.4GB used on my render node, with only the DrServer running on that machine (along side other software my company runs in the background) and my primary workstation is reporting only 10.9GB (from task manager>performance) with multiple tabs open in Chrome, Affinity Photo with a 32-bit document open, Skype, Outlook, and the same background software running. It is a little peculiar to me my node is using that much RAM without additional software, but I never encounter issues with my node exceeding memory limits when rendering scenes that push my RAM to 98% capacity.
Maybe it would be helpful if you post screenshots of your task manager on all active machines while rendering. Edit: I see there is a 15% disparity between your host machine and node. I'll be rendering later this afternoon and I'll check to see if the behavior is the same for me.